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How to Use Your VA to Reclaim Thinking Time (Without Dropping the Ball)
Every founder needs thinking time—but most don’t get it. Here’s how to design a VA partnership that protects your strategic brainspace without sacrificing speed or responsiveness.

March 28, 2025

  • Writer: Mollie Staretorp
    Mollie Staretorp
  • Mar 27
  • 3 min read

Updated: Jun 17

Every founder knows the feeling: Your calendar is packed, your inbox is groaning, and the idea of uninterrupted time to think feels like a luxury you can’t afford. But that thinking time - the space to make strategic decisions, identify new opportunities, or even just take a breath - isn’t optional. It’s your job.


The problem? Most founders try to claw it back by working later or hiding from Slack. But the real solution isn’t more hours. It’s smarter delegation - and your VA is the lever.


The Hidden Cost of Shallow Work


A University of California Irvine study found that it takes an average of 23 minutes to refocus after a distraction. When you’re constantly switching between meetings, approvals, status updates, and inbound questions, your ability to think clearly tanks.


This isn’t just annoying—it’s expensive. Deep work drives the strategic outcomes investors care about. If you’re not protecting that space, your business suffers.


What Most Founders Get Wrong About VAs


Too many founders treat their VA like a glorified scheduler or inbox filter. That’s a waste. Your VA can become your thinking-time bodyguard—but only if you train them to be.

It starts with reorienting your mindset:

  • Your VA isn’t just helping you with tasks—they’re helping you protect your focus.

  • The goal isn’t “get this off my plate.” It’s “create the conditions for better decision-making.”


5 Delegation Shifts That Buy Back Thinking Time


1. Delegate the setup of thinking time, not just tasks


Ask your VA to pre-block 90-minute deep work windows during your energy peak (usually mornings). Guard these like investor calls.


  • Use Clockwise or Reclaim to auto-protect that time.

  • Add a label to your calendar: “Strategic Block – no meetings unless urgent.”


2. Assign your VA as the gatekeeper of reactive work


Train them to hold inbound questions, sort fires from friction, and reroute items they can answer or defer. Tools like Front or Missive make this collaborative.


  • Slack triage: Create a daily digest instead of constant interruptions.

  • Email rules: They reply to routine items. You only handle decision-level items.


3. Ask your VA to prep thinking-time prompts


Before each strategic block, have your VA:

  • Surface the 3 most important issues from the week

  • Include any relevant background context

  • List options you’ve been considering or have on deck


You’re not starting from scratch—you’re stepping into a curated space.


4. Build a cadence for weekly “CEO time”


Have your VA enforce a Friday or Monday 2-hour block just for founder-level planning. They protect it, prep it, and recap it afterward.


  • Use a recurring Notion doc or shared note

  • Include links to relevant dashboards, sales metrics, or team updates


5. Audit what you’re still doing—and cut it ruthlessly


Every quarter, ask your VA to build a log of what you’re still owning. Review it together:

  • What’s repeatable? Automate it.

  • What’s teachable? Delegate it.

  • What’s avoidable? Kill it.


Founders Who Nail This Look Different


They’re not frantic in meetings. They make better decisions. Their teams don’t ping them constantly for help. Why? Because they’ve designed their week around strategic clarity—not reactive chaos.


If you hired a VA but still feel like you’re drowning, this is your wake-up call.


Further Reading:

  • You Hired a VA—So Why Are You Still in the Weeds?

  • How to Delegate Your Inbox Without Losing Your Mind

  • Getting Started with a VA: The First 30 Days

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